Friday, November 9, 2012

George Albert Smith #20 Temporal Salvation for Ourselves and Others


I had been looking forward to teaching this lesson for along time.  Temporal Salvation is a great topic.  However, as I actually sat down and read over the material, I could feel myself getting grouchy eyebrows.  I thought, I can’t teach with grouchy eyebrows!  They won ‘t look good with my outfit. 

Even more importantly, though, as I was feeling stirred up about certain topics in the lesson, I couldn’t focus or feel the spirit as I prepared.  Who scheduled this during the election week, anyway? 

The election has left a lot of people with high emotions.  In this lesson, it is never my intention to offend anyone—and if I make a political reference, I speak not of individuals, but of pervasive, long-term issues.  I imagine that for you, like me, much of the stress around the election comes from prophecies about the last days, and about this land in particular. 

In his talk, Hope You Know We Had a Hard Time, Elder Cook stated:

“In numerous places in the Book of Mormon, the people were promised that they would prosper in the land if they would keep the commandments.  This promise is often accompanied by the warning that if they do not keep the commandments of God, they shall be cut off from His presence.  Clearly, having the blessings of the Spirit—the ministration of the Holy Ghost—is an essential element to truly prosper in the land and to be prepared.”

Similarly, in his conference talk Faith through Tribulation Brings Peace and Joy, Elder Hales said,

“We are living through turbulent times. A great storm of evil has come upon the earth. The winds of wickedness howl about us; the waves of war beat against our ship. As Paul wrote to Timothy: “In the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, … Having a form of godliness; but denying the power thereof.

As we look into the eyes of our children and grandchildren, we see the doubt and fear of our times. Wherever these precious ones go in the world, they hear about unemployment, poverty, war, immorality, and crime. They wonder, “How can we cope with these problems?””
I know my children were very aware of this election, as were their peers at school.  From what I hear, I think those students whose parents voted in the minority had a bit of a rough time for a few days.  I know there was a lot of stress in our house on Election Day.  My little McKay sobbed himself to sleep, pausing only long enough to say, “Well, at least dad has guns!”

President Hales continues,

“To find answers, they look back into our eyes and listen to our words. Do they hear us speaking faithfully and hopefully, despite the tribulations of our times?
They need to see us continuing to pray and study the scriptures together, to hold family home evening and family councils, to serve faithfully in our Church callings, to attend the temple regularly, and to be obedient to our covenants. When they see our steadfastness in keeping the commandments, their fears will subside and their confidence in the Lord will increase.
By showing our faith through tribulation, we assure them that the fury of the adversary is not fatal. Jesus prayed to His Father on our behalf: “Not that thou shouldest take them out of the world, but that thou shouldest keep them from the evil.” That prayer will be answered in Heavenly Father’s time and season, according to our faith.”

Elder Hales also said,

“It is true that ominous clouds gather around us, but just as the Savior’s words brought peace to the Apostles in the boat, they bring peace to us today: “And when ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars, be ye not troubled: for such things must needs be; but the end shall not be yet.”  “If ye are prepared ye shall not fear.””

There are so many topics we could cover—avoiding debt, saving, food storage, guarding our resources, growing food, etc.  I can’t cover everything I would like, so I will summarize these topics by saying, “if we are wise with our means, we will be prepared for hard times.”
 President GAS said:
“We may have hard times, brothers and sisters, but we can be prepared for them, if we think of the seven years of plenty and the seven years of famine in the days of Pharaoh and plan as they did.  Such conditions may come again. We do not know, but we do know that in the early days of the Church the Presidency and leadership of the Church advised the people to store sufficient food to meet an emergency. The result has been that since the people got thoroughly settled here and farms began producing, and herds and flocks increasing, there has been no real necessity for anybody to suffer for food.”

What a great promise.  I would be surprised if any of us here has truly known hunger.  To hear my son, McKay, on Fast Sunday, you would think he hadn’t eaten for weeks.  When told we are fasting, he shrieks, “But I’m absolutely starving.”  I’m thinking, “but we just started fasting an hour ago.”  One of my friends posted a video called “First World Problems”.  It shows one person collapsing in despair because they bought too many groceries and they have to make two trips, and another lambasting Apple for the burden of having to buy yet another version of iPhone.  So, for us, I believe a lot of our temporal welfare is about perspective.

And yet, we do have uncertainty.  President Smith said:

We are living in perilous times. The scriptures are being fulfilled, and as it appears to me this is the particular time when, if it were possible, the very elect would be deceived. It is remarkable how easy it is for those who desire to advance their financial interests in the world to find a reason for setting aside the plain teachings of the Lord with reference to our lives. And it is strange to me how many people fall into the habit of listening to those who say things that are contrary to the revealed will of our Heavenly Father. …

This statement seems so applicable to today, although it was probably given over 50 years ago.  Today, We live in circumstances with a troubled global economy. Many more people struggle with finances today who didn’t in better times.

Elder Cook said:

The challenges we face today are in their own way comparable to challenges of the past. The recent economic crisis has caused significant concern throughout the world. Employment and financial problems are not unusual. Many people have physical and mental health challenges. Others deal with marital problems or wayward children. Some have lost loved ones. Addictions and inappropriate or harmful propensities cause heartache. Whatever the source of the trials, they cause significant pain and suffering for individuals and those who love them.
Our challenge is in how we meet these troubled times.

“In the early 1930’s, Elder Smith, then a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, addressed the Relief Society during another time of desperate need—the Great Depression. He taught that helping those in need goes beyond providing temporal assistance; it also requires true kindness and charity:”
“There never has been a time, in my judgment, when kindness was needed more than now. These are the days when people’s souls are being tried, and when their hearts are being wrung. These are the days when many are facing hunger and distress even among the Latter-day Saints. …”
“… I believe our Heavenly Father is giving us our opportunity for development. … We will discover now whether the love the Savior said should be in our hearts is among us.”

It is interesting that President Smith considered hard times as an opportunity for development.  Not everyone sees things that way.

A few weeks ago during Ward Conference, Brother Hanks referred to the psychologist Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, and asked how we can increase our spirituality when, in this economy, we may be struggling to meet our basic needs.  I’ve thought about that since then, and came to the conclusion that Maslow is coming from an entirely temporal mindset.  For those with a spiritual mindset, this hierarchy can, in some ways, essentially be set on its head. 

For example, in Indian religions, those who are seeking enlightenment forgo basically all of the needs on Maslow’s list, living in caves, subsisting on little food, and sometimes not even speaking for years.

Likewise, Elder Hales details in his talk how Christ, throughout his life, and especially in the last week, endured terrible deprivations, humiliation and agony.  And yet, this was also the pinnacle of his spiritual service, testifying, healing, and intense prayer. 

Elder Hales says, “In His darkest hour, the light of peace and joy did not fade.  It grew brighter.”

From these teachings, we can see that we need not fear, and also that we can faith during hard times.

In his talk, Elder Hales recounts the story of the Brother of Jared, as he took the initiative to prepare stones to light the ships prior to crossing the sea.

He teaches,

“As parents and leaders, we must remember that “it is not meet that [the Lord] should command in all things.”  Like the brother of Jared, we must carefully consider the needs of our family members, make a plan to meet those needs, and then take our plan to the Lord in prayer. This will require faith and effort on our part, but He will help us as we seek His assistance and do His will.
After his experience with the Lord, the brother of Jared continued to diligently prepare himself for the journey ahead.  So too must we hearken to the teachings of our prophets. The living prophets have counseled us time and again to put our lives in order—to eliminate debt, to store food and other essential items, to pay our tithing, to obtain appropriate education, and to live the commandments. Have we obeyed these essential instructions?”

Now we come to that part of the lesson that gets me riled up, so watch out for the grouchy eyebrows. 

The Lord has directed us to work to earn our own livelihood.

I applaud President Erza Taft Benson when he says,

“I bear you my testimony that President Heber J. Grant was inspired of the Lord in establishing the Church Welfare program. The First Presidency was inspired when they made the first public announcement in 1936 and declared the prime purpose of Church welfare was “to help the people help themselves”.”

President Benson goes on to say,

“We encourage you to be more self-reliant so that, as the Lord has declared, “notwithstanding the tribulation which shall descend upon you, … the church may stand independent above all other creatures beneath the celestial world” The Lord wants us to be independent and self-reliant because these will be days of tribulation. He has warned and forewarned us of the eventuality.
President Brigham Young said, “If you are without bread, how much wisdom can you boast, and of what real utility are your talents, if you cannot procure for yourselves and save against a day of scarcity those substances designed to sustain your natural lives?”

Adding to the previous testaments about the doctrine of work and self-reliance, President Smith declared,

“I thank God for work, for the joy that comes from doing things in the world. I am not indicating any particular kind of employment except that it be honorable. But the Lord has indicated that we should be industrious. In ancient times he said that we should earn our living by the sweat of our face.”

And President Benson affirms,

“One of the first principles revealed to father Adam when he was driven out of the Garden of Eden was this: “In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground” All we obtain in life of a material nature comes as a product of labor and the providence of God. Work alone produces life’s necessities.”

I am a firm believer in the value of work, and yet it is not a value that is held, anymore, by much of America, and indeed the world. Instead, we have a cultural of laziness, and I find it is proving very hard to teach my children to value work. 

President Smith warns,

“The very fact that so much money has been made available to many people gives the youth in some instances the feeling that because money comes relatively easy, honest toil is not necessary or desirable. And yet I am satisfied that no people have ever lived upon the earth who, having failed to earn their livelihood by integrity and industry, have not gone to decay.
If our children grow up in idleness, we know that this is displeasing to the Lord.”

Even though it is an uphill battle, even though the momentum is towards thinking it is okay to let other provide for you, it is essential that we continue to teach the value of work and self-reliance.

President Smith said,

“We must not fall into the bad habits of other people. We must not get into the frame of mind that we will take what the other man has. Refer back to the ten commandments, and you will find one short paragraph, “Thou shalt not covet.” …
We must not get into that frame of mind. Others may do that, but if we have the spirit of the gospel of Jesus Christ in our hearts, we will not be deceived in that regard.”

I believe that the true crisis is not with a specific president, but that the government and the people HAVE been deceived in that regard, increasingly over a long downward spiral. 

Just so that there is no question about what the Lord expects, let me again quote President Smith,

Our Heavenly Father … said long, long ago there were idlers in Zion, … and he said, “He that is idle shall not eat the bread nor wear the garments of the laborer.” I am assuming that he did not mean those who cannot find employment, and who are legitimately trying to take care of themselves. I am assuming that he referred to the habit some people get into of leaning upon their neighbor. … I feel that there has been no justification given to any man in this world to feel that he can depend on somebody else to provide him a livelihood. I did not feel when I was a child that somebody would be compelled to provide me a means of living. The Lord gave me intelligence. He directed that I should work, and I began to work when I was twelve years of age, and I found joy in it, and have earned my living and helped others during more than fifty years.”

And President Benson:

“More than ever before, we need to learn and apply the principles of economic self-reliance. We do not know when the crisis involving sickness or unemployment may affect our own circumstances. We do know that the Lord has decreed global calamities for the future and has warned and forewarned us to be prepared. For this reason the Brethren have repeatedly stressed a “back to basics” program for temporal and spiritual welfare.

Unfortunately, there has been fostered in the minds of some an expectation that when we experience hard times, when we have been unwise and extravagant with our resources and have lived beyond our means, we should look to either the Church or government to bail us out. Forgotten by some of our members is an underlying principle of the Church welfare plan that “no true Latter-day Saint will, while physically able, voluntarily shift from himself the burden of his own support”

Clearly, God expects us to work to provide for ourselves.  Why?  What happens to us when we feel like it is someone else’s obligation to solve our problems or bail us out?

·      Such attitudes bring on resentment of others, which chases the spirit away.
o   President Smith taught, “I hope we are not going to become bitter because some men and women are well-to-do.”

o   Do we see this?  YES! 

·      We give away our personal power, self-esteem and opportunities for personal growth when we expect someone else to solve our problems.
·      We come to feel like we have a right to certain things.
·      Examples
o   Single mom’s expensive dinner with no tip-eating out is a right.
o   Rising Star
§  Complain about saris
§  No handouts
§  Lady with turkey
§  The lepers built a retirement home for the elderly lepers.

In D&C 56:17, the Lord condemns those (the poor, or the idle) who covet the riches of others:

“Wo unto you poor men, whose hearts are not broken, whose spirits are not contrite, and whose bellies are not satisfied, and whose hands are not stayed from laying hold upon other men’s goods, whose eyes are full of greediness, and who will not labor with your own hands!”

Now we come to the other side of the coin.  In D&C 56:16, he ALSO condemns those (the rich man, or the laborer), who covet or are greedy with THEIR OWN riches:

“Wo unto you rich men, that will not give your substance to the poor, for your riches will canker your souls; and this shall be your lamentation in the day of visitation, and of judgment, and of indignation: The harvest is past, the summer is ended, and my soul is not saved!

The Lord has made it clear that we are expected to share our substance with those in need. 

3 Nephi 24:8 reads,

Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say: Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings.

On this subject, President Smith taught:

“The Lord has given us the privilege of contributing one-tenth of our interest, for His Church, for the development of His work in the world. Those who pay their tithing receive their blessing. … We cannot expect to earn blessings without earnest effort. We will be required to make what appears to some to be sacrifices. I suppose people think when they pay their tithing that they are making a sacrifice, but they are not; they are making a real investment that will return an eternal dividend. Our Heavenly Father gives us all that we have. He places all in our hands, authorizing us to retain for our own use nine-tenths of it, and then He asks that we put His tenth where He directs, where He knows it will accomplish the most good in developing His Church.”

God loves all of his children.  He desires their welfare and happiness.  Therefore, we know that He has provided sufficiently that, if we are generous with our means, there is no need for anyone to go with out. 

President Smith said,

“There is no necessity for any man, woman, or child in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to go without, for the Church is organized to help those who lack the necessities of life. There is plenty for all, and to spare. … God has permitted men to get wealth, and if they obtained it properly, it is theirs, and he will bless them in its use if they will use it properly.
We are becoming so wrapped up with the world that we forget the people who are suffering that we could help, in many cases.”

Let me leave you with the admonition of President Smith:

Let us … look around us in our neighborhood—not leave it to the Bishop and the Relief Society, but let each of us be ministers of loving kindness to those who will need us so much.  If we will … impart of our substance even though it may be but the widow’s mite, we will obtain from him who lives on high the blessings we need in our day here upon the earth, and when the time comes for us to go hence we will find awaiting us the blessing of a loving Father who has appreciated the efforts we have put forth.

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Lessons

Because I sometimes benefit from the many blogs and websites out there that post lesson helps and ideas, I thought I should give back.  So, I'm going to start posting my Relief Society lessons.  Hopefully, in the future, I can get them up BEFORE they are scheduled to be taught so they can actually help someone else out.  :)

George Albert Smith #18 Stay On the Lord's Side of the Line


**            This past Labor Day, Dave and I decided it would be fun to rent UTV’s, or Razors, and explore the desert volcanoes west of my parent’s home in Flowell, Utah.  Although not initially thrilled about the idea, Keaton, 16, quickly recognized the power, and speed, his little 2 seater provided.  Dave and I warned him several times that in his excitement and fin his speed and recklessness were becoming quite dangerous, and could turn tragic.  After one particularly hair-raising incident, we finally banned him from driving.  With Keaton in a passenger seat, and our blood pressure returning to normal, we proceeded on our explorations. 

After several hours, hot and tired, we stopped by a volcanic outcropping for lunch.  As we rested, Keaton convinced us to let him take the Razor, with his young cousin, to explore.  Soon after, Dave followed with the other cousins, while I stayed behind talking to my parents.  After a while, I thought I could hear faint calling sounds.  A few minutes later, both vehicles returned, Dave looking grim, and Keaton hand, purple and muddy, dangling uselessly.  He had rolled the Razor, breaking 3 bones in his hand. 

We count ourselves fortunate, as his cousin was hysterical but unhurt, and Keaton’s hand will heal.  However, it cost us about $4500 in medical bills, and Keaton’s grades have suffered, and he had to quit both golf and quidditch, not to mention the pain he endured.

**            Today’s lesson is Stay On the Lord’s Side Of the Line.  The Lord has given us commandments so that we can resist evil and find happiness.  

In the manual, we read:

George Albert Smith’s grandfather George A. Smith served for many years in the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and in the First Presidency as a counselor to Brigham Young. George Albert Smith often repeated the counsel his grandfather used to give to his family: “There is a line of demarcation well defined between the Lord’s territory and the devil’s territory. If you will stay on the Lord’s side of the line you will be under his influence and will have no desire to do wrong; but if you cross to the devil’s side of that line one inch you are in the tempter’s power and if he is successful, you will not be able to think or even reason properly because you will have lost the Spirit of the Lord.”
George Albert Smith said that he used this counsel throughout his life to guide his choices: “When I have been tempted sometimes to do a certain thing, I have asked myself, ‘Which side of the line am I on?’ If I determined to be on the safe side, the Lord’s side, I would do the right thing every time. So when temptation comes think prayerfully about your problem and the influence of the Lord will aid you to decide wisely. There is safety for us only on the Lord’s side of the line.”

**            In our situation with Keaton, the line was crossed.  What are your thoughts on what went wrong?

We always want to stay on the right side, the Lord’s side, of the line.

George Albert Smith said:

“All safety, all righteousness, all happiness are on the Lord’s side of the line. If you are keeping the commandments of God by observing the Sabbath day, you are on the Lord’s side of the line. If you attend to your secret prayers and your family prayers, you are on the Lord’s side of the line. If you are grateful for food and express that gratitude to God, you are on the Lord’s side of the line. If you love your neighbor as yourself, you are on the Lord’s side of the line. If you are honest in your dealing with your fellow men, you are on the Lord’s side of the line. If you observe the Word of Wisdom, you are on the Lord’s side of the line. And so I might go on through the Ten Commandments and the other commandments that God has given for our guidance and say again, all that enriches our lives and makes us happy and prepares us for eternal joy is on the Lord’s side of the line. Finding fault with the things that God has given to us for our guidance is not on the Lord’s side of the line.
[The Lord has said]: “I cannot look upon sin with the least degree of allowance;” not with the least degree of allowance. Why? Because He knows that if we partake of sin we lose a blessing that we would enjoy if we did not forsake the pathway that leads to that blessing.”
**            In our case, it is easy to see what was lost—money, fun, and achievement.  Often, it is only many years down the road that the lost blessings from not keeping the commandments become apparent.  Likewise, we may not realize how blessed we have been from obedience until many years later.
This lesson has four main purposes:
·      Remind us how serious the Lord is about His commandments and counsels
·      Invite us to look beyond the rules and restrictions and see the big picture of why they are in place
·      Suggest a strategy to do better
·      Make us more aware of the tactics Satan uses
George Albert Smith said the following:
The Lord, in His kindness, seeing the attitude of His children, and knowing that they would need guidance, gave to us the Ten Commandments, and other commandments that have been given from time to time, to help us to find happiness. You observe people running to and fro in the world, seeking happiness but not finding it. If they would only pause long enough to accept the Lord’s advice happiness would follow, but they will find it in no other way.5
When I was a child I recognized, or thought I did, that the commandments of the Lord were His laws and regulations for my guidance. I thought I recognized in the disobedience to those laws that punishment would follow, and as a child I presume I may have felt that the Lord had so arranged affairs and so ordained matters in this life that I must obey certain laws or swift retribution would follow. But as I grew older I have learned the lesson from another viewpoint, and now to me the laws of the Lord, so-called, the counsels contained in the Holy Scriptures, the revelations of the Lord to us in this day and age of the world, are but the sweet music of the voice of our Father in heaven in His mercy to us. They are but the advice and counsel of a loving parent, who is more concerned in our welfare than earthly parents can be, and consequently that which at one time seemed to bear the harsh name of law to me is now the loving and tender advice of an all-wise Heavenly Father. And so I say it is not hard for me to believe that it is best for me to keep the commandments of God.
**            This image illustrates this concept so well, except that our parents are our Heavenly parents.
GAS said:
Every once in a while we hear somebody say, “Oh, I wouldn’t be so particular. The Lord is not going to be very severe with us if we just go part way.” The one who is talking that way is already on the devil’s side of the line, and you do not want to listen to him because if you do, you may be misled. Nobody talks that way who has the Spirit of the Lord. The Lord himself has said that we must keep his commandments: “There is a law, irrevocably decreed in heaven before the foundations of this world, upon which all blessings are predicated.” The gospel of Jesus Christ is to teach us how to earn that blessing.
**            Let me illustrate this principle with a story I came across yesterday while reading on a site about Canyoneering.  The writer of the website is an experienced canyoneer, who created this site to share information with other hikers about various places to hike and do so safely.  In the story I read, he had met a man, and they decided to take a trip together to do the upper middle of Left Fork and then finish with the Subway. The time table is mid-November, the starting point, about 6000 feet in elevation.  Prior to leaving, the friend had refused to rent a wetsuit, but finally relented and decided to get one.  The hike starts with several miles in, in a foot of snow.
            As they drop into the slot, Dave is puts on his wetsuit, but his friend won’t.  The friend says he’s hot and doesn’t need it.  After Dave points out that there is ice on the water, he puts on a wetsuit top, but no bottoms, and no neoprene socks.  Dave tells him, well, you are in for a treat.
After about 20 minutes, the friend can’t feel his legs or feet, and is fast descending into hypothermia. So, they stop, and the friend puts on his bottom. A while later, they come out of a slot, and the friend falls in the water and can’t get up.  At that point Dave notices that the friend has lost one of his boots.  Dave tells him he has to find the boot, because no one can hike with him without boots.  They can’t find the boot, they have at 9 miles left on the hike, and the friend is in a critical situation. 
So, how does this story relate to the quote I read previously?
·      We can’t just obey part way
·      If we don’t listen to him, we are being misled
·      The Lord’s has said we have to follow his rules.
·      If we don’t follow completely, we can get in real trouble, real fast.
**            I’ve already talked about this book, WHY, a book of questions about WHY we should keep the commandments. 
Have random people open the book, and read a question, and discuss the blessings of keeping that commandment.
If we will follow the advice and counsel that the Lord has given, our pathway will be one of happiness. It will be a pathway, perhaps not of ease and comfort always, but in the end it will terminate in the presence of our Heavenly Father, and glory, immortality and eternal lives will be our portion.
The trick, however, is that the adversary tries to lead us astray with his deceptions and subtleties.
GAS said:
There are two influences in the world today and have been from the beginning. One is an influence that is constructive, that radiates happiness and that builds character. The other influence is one that destroys, turns men into demons, tears down and discourages. We are all susceptible to both. The one comes from our Heavenly Father and the other comes from the source of evil that has been in the world from the beginning seeking to bring about the destruction of the human family.
We will all be tempted; no man is free from temptation. The adversary will use every means possible to deceive us; he tried to do that with the Savior of the world without success. He has tried it on many other men who have possessed divine authority, and sometimes he finds a weak spot and the individual loses what might have been a great blessing if he had been faithful.
**            A few weeks ago, there was a story in the news about Stansbury high school and a big controversy with their homecoming dance.  Did anyone see it?  Apparently, about 1/3 of the girls who came to the dance were sent home because of dress code violations.  The dress code, stated, for example, that the dresses needed to be at or near knee length, not have plunging necklines, not be strapless, etc.  The students were outraged; the parents were outraged.  The parents interviewed, without exception, proclaimed their daughter’s dress to be within the dress code, that the dress code was vague, and that their daughter was modest and beautiful. 
             I was very intrigued by this.  I wondered why the mothers tried to push as close to the vague boundaries as possible, instead of encouraging their daughters to stay well away from that boundary.   
           My son recently attended homecoming with a young lady as well.  I know he would not have been comfortable had his date dressed like the Stansbury high school girls.  I also knew that I did not have to worry about how this young lady would dress.  I knew what her standards would be, because I knew who her family was.
The following is quoted from GAS:
Let me … read from Nephi:
“And there shall also be many which shall say, Eat, drink and be merry, nevertheless fear God, he will justify in committing a little sin.”
I want you to note that: “He will justify in committing a little sin.” That cunning adversary knowing that if he could only get a man or woman to do a little wrong, that far they had gone into his territory, that far they were in his power.
“Nevertheless, fear God, he will justify in committing a little sin, yea, lie a little, take the advantage of one because of his words, dig a pit for thy neighbor; there is no harm in this. And do all these things, for tomorrow we die; and if it so be that we are guilty, God will beat us with a few stripes, and at last we shall be saved in the Kingdom of God.” [2 Nephi 28:8.]
Isn’t that just exactly what the devil says to the children of men today as plainly as it is written here? Oh, commit a little sin, that won’t do any harm, lie a little, that won’t do any particular damage, the Lord will forgive that and you will only be beaten with a few stripes and at last you shall be saved in the kingdom of God. That is what he says to the man or the woman who has been taught the Word of Wisdom when he says, oh, drink a little tea, that won’t hurt you; use a little tobacco, that won’t make any difference; a little liquor won’t do any harm. These are little things; he always does it a little at a time, not all at once. That is what I would like us to remember. … It is these insignificant insidious whisperings that betray mankind and that place us in the power of the devil. …
How can we help young people recognize and overcome these messages and influences?
·      The line is not vague; it is not fuzzy.
In a Church News article from 2009 entitled Not Even Once, Wendy Watson Nelson says:
I believe it is time to counter the insidious and relentless attack on our families and nations by dramatically increasing their spiritual strength!  How can we do that?  One answer may be in the words I saw as I was driving along a remote country road. Three words on a large sloping barn roof caught my attention. I believe those words could spiritually strengthen our families and our nations, if properly applied.
The three words on the big sloping roof of that old barn were:  Not Even Once!
Think of what could happen if we each determined that from this moment on, there were certain things we would never do, or never do again -- NOT EVEN ONCE!
For example, imagine the strength to our nations that would flow if just 10 families in each village, each town, and each city around the world made and kept a commitment to NOT EVEN ONCE abuse a child or a woman–in any way
NOT EVEN ONCE to lie, or cheat, steal. Not even once!
NOT EVEN ONCE:
to take illegal drugs 

to look at anything pornographic 

to be sexually impure! Not even once! 


Does this sound impossible? With the help of God, it is not!
God is the Father of your spirit and mine. He knows us so much better than we know ourselves and He can strengthen us to avoid spiritually corroding influences. All we need to do is to ask for His help in making and keeping these commitments.
What are some things WE, as sisters, can commit to NOT do, NOT EVEN ONCE?
·      Criticize, lash out, gossip
**            Another way we can resist evil is by choosing to subject ourselves to the influence of the Lord.  We will respond to the influence we choose to associate ourselves with. 
Consider the following story from GAS and the moral he draws from it: (Quote 4)
I remember a number of years ago a good man who was at that time chairman of the board of control of the Universalist Church of America. He came here to visit [Salt Lake City] and attended two of our Sunday schools. In one of the [children’s] classes he became much interested. Eventually, when the [class] was about to close, the superintendent said, “Wouldn’t you like to say a few words to the [class]?” … He said, “I would like to say a few words.” He said, “If I could only live in the atmosphere that I found in that little … class in this Sabbath school this morning, I couldn’t help but be a good man.”
I have thought of that a good many times. We choose carefully the atmosphere that we breathe, that we may live in health. But sometimes, in our carelessness, we place ourselves in subjection to immoral influences that destroy our resistance of evil, and we are led to do things that we ought not to do and would not do if under the influence of the Lord. If we would only be humble, if we would only be prayerful, if we would only live in such a way that each hour of our lives we could truthfully say, “Father in heaven, I am willing and anxious to do what thou wouldst have me do,” our lives every day would be enriched as we go through this earth experience.
GAS said:
We choose where we will be. God has given us our agency. He will not take it from us, and if I do that which is wrong and get into the devil’s territory, I do it because I have the will and power to do it.
**            Has anyone traveled to a third world country, such as Mexico, etc?  What I often find when I travel to a third-world country, is that I find myself much more worried about my safety, and freedom.  I worry that the people there may not respect the rights that I value, and often, I even worry that those in authority, such as the police, may not obey the laws.  Many places, I won’t travel too, because they are too dangerous.  When I hear of Americans who come to a bad end in those countries, I always wonder what they were thinking in going there.
I don’t even enjoy crossing borders between countries.  I always feel like something is going to go wrong.  I feel stressed, like somehow they are going to find contraband or a problem with my ID, and am always relieved when I am through the border.
Similarly, spiritually, we don’t want to go to that “other” country.  We don’t want to even flirt along the border.  We will be happiest and most peaceful when we stay well within the Lord’s boundaries.
GAS
How careful we as Latter-day Saints ought to be to live every day of our lives that we may be influenced by the power of the Lord, and that we may be able to turn aside from those things that have a tendency to break down our power to earn the celestial kingdom.
See that your feet are planted upon the rock. See that you learn the desires of the Master toward you, and, knowing those desires, see to it that you keep His laws and commands. See to it that the purity of your lives shall entitle you to the companionship of the Holy Spirit, because if you are pure and virtuous and upright, the evil one will have no power to destroy you.
**            What are some of the places or circumstances when you feel no desire to do evil?  What can we do to create such an atmosphere in our homes, our workplaces, our communities, and our personal lives?
Returning to Wendy Watson Nelson;
The Not Even Once principle can be applied to doing positive things as well. Imagine if every family, that was committed to the Not Even Once precept, determined that there were certain things they would never miss an opportunity to do! Not even once!
For example, to Not Even Once miss an opportunity:
to teach a child 

to help someone in need 

to forgive someone—someone who may never repent or apologize for the pain they have caused 

to be kind—especially to someone who isn't 


It's really quite simple: Spiritual strength comes to those who focus their lives on following God and serving Him and their fellow men and women.
What can WE as Sisters, commit to never miss an opportunity to do, NOT EVEN ONCE?
**            This week, I want you to think about this question:
What commitment am I willing to make to God and to myself, that I will never do, or will never miss an opportunity to do—from this moment on—NOT EVEN ONCE?
GAS:
I pray that we examine ourselves and find out which side of the line we are on; and if we are on the Lord’s side, stay there, because that means eternal happiness in the companionship of the best men and women that have lived upon the earth.

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Fall Break

Whew.  We've been home from Fall Break for almost a week, and I'm just now getting a minute to write about it.  We had both a VERY challenging trip and a fun trip.

To start with we had made the decision two months ago to leave for Fall Break a day early, Wednesday, because we got a better deal on frequent flyer tickets that day.  This was before Keaton broke his hand on Labor Day.  Unfortunately, due to Keaton's unfortunate accident, among other things, he had missed too much school for the term for us to feel good about him missing class on Wednesday.

So, we decided to change Keaton's ticket, and have Dave stay behind and come (space available) with Keaton at 5:00 pm.  That was an extra cost, which turned out to be only the beginning of our troubles.  I left the house with the kids at 5:00 am--just minutes after we told them about the trip.  They were all stunned and sooo excited to be going to Florida and "Harry Potter World".  Except Carson.  We had told the kids we were going to my parent's house in Flowell for break.  Carson was so disappointed to be going to Florida instead of Flowell, he through a major tantrum about it.  It was kind of disconcerting, in a funny way.  Flying with the 3 younger kids has been less than a treat in the past, to put it mildly.  I was fairly worried about doing it alone.  What do you know, but all the seats had individual media screens.  One swipe of the card, and we were set.

Until we got to Atlanta, where we had to change plans.  We had to run from concourse A 1000 feet to concourse B, only to discover that during the flight, they had changed the gate, and we had to run back to concourse A, where we had just come from.  Same gate even, 25A.  Even though we had an hour, the reason we had to run was because the kids didn't have seat assignments!  By the time we got back and got their seat assignments, they were put on row 44, while I was up in row 21!  I thought, well, have fun with that.  Meaning the passengers, not my kids.  I didn't hear any trouble during the flight, but I learned later that Makenzie and McKay might have had a fist fight over the iPod.  At least no one knew who the parent was.

Keaton headed to school, where he discovered that most of his teachers were gone early on break.  I was pretty ticked to find that out after all hassle we had to go through to have him there.  Dave and Keaton got to the airport on time, but the plane was full!  Keaton had a seat, but Dave didn't.  The only solution was for Keaton to come alone, which he did, arriving in Orlando at midnight, and then taking a taxi, alone, to the hotel.  Believe me, that is quite an accomplishment for him.

Dave, on the other hand, had no choice but to take a flight to LA, then to Atlanta, then Orlando, arriving Thursday morning just in time to accompany us to Universal Studios.  You can be sure Dave was a jolly companion that day!

It was great fun.  We all LOVED Hogmeade.  We drank lots of butterbeer, and bought wands and Quidditch shirts.  Makenzie wouldn't let anyone help her with her wand choice, because as you know, that is a personal bond between the wizard and the wand.

After a few days there, we went Fort Lauderdale, where we took an airboat out on the Everglades (a World Heritage Site!!) and went to the beach in Fort Lauderdale and Miami.  I loved the Art Deco architecture of the shops and hotels along Miami beach.  So retro.

The return flight was about like the flight there:  Dave had to stay in Florida for work, none of us had seats together.  Boy, were we glad to get home.

Dressing the part


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 One of the things that make India unique is that there are so many aspects of the  at are so jarringly out of place with one another, that they seemly cannot co-exist.  A Ferrari and an elephant used as transportation on the same street, for example.  One point of contradiction we have discovered is the disjunct between the culture being very conservative Hindu, Muslim, Sikh (and other religions) on the surface, but with sometimes blatant sexual undertone that is demeaning, even dangerous to women.

In Indian culture, for example, it is unacceptable for a couple to kiss, hold hands, or basically touch in any way in public.  On the other hand, it is quite common for women to be pinched or grouped by perfect strangers when moving through a crowd.

Because of the cultural norms,  the charity where we will be working in India requires all of the women and girls who work there to wear the traditional Indian salwar chameez.  The salwar is a loose, comfortable pant.  The chameez is a long tunic worn over the top.  Many times, this outfit is worn with the addition of a long scarf wrapped around the shoulders and sometimes draped over the head.  The charity provides a selection of salwar chameez for us to chose from.  Makenzie is very excited about wearing them.  Because we want to conform to the culture while we are there, I am also going to make us a few outfits to take along for our travels in India before and after we are at Rising Star.  I've just started Makenzie's first one--it is going to be blue satin with gold trim and a gold scarf.  She's planning to wear it for Halloween, so I've got to hurry.  

Mine are going to be more simple, and warmer--it may be India, but it will be cool up in the Delhi area.  I'll post some pictures after I have them made, hopefully in the next few weeks.  In any case, none of them will be as pretty as the one pictured here!  But, we do hope to buy some for a good price in India.

Besides respecting the culture, by dressing in a very conservative way, we hope to avoid encountering a problem with inappropriate contact from Indian males.  This problem is called "Eve teasing" in India, a term which puts the blame on the woman, the victim, as if it is her fault for just standing there.  It is, apparently, common in India, Pakistan, Nepal and Bangladesh.  As it is more common for women traveling alone, I hope that having Dave, Keaton, and our India driver and guide along, we will not encounter anything of that type.

So, that is a worry, but not the only one.  Because of the extreme poverty of millions of people living together alongside some very wealthy people, there is a lot of crime.  Certainly more than I am used to here in Alpine.  Dave, in fact, has ordered some special pants with numerous, hidden, kevlar pockets.  These pants were developed specifically for travelers to India by a couple who realized the need for such a thing after having the bottoms of their pockets, purses, etc, sliced open by pick-pockets.  

On the other hand, from what I've read, many people are also so kind and generous, they would give their guest their last bite of food, and feel bad they couldn't do more.  While it may be hard to sift through which is which, I'm hoping we see some of that side of India, too.

Stay tuned for pictures of the salwar chameez coming in (hopefully) the next few weeks!



Saturday, October 6, 2012

India Tour Bus



I'm getting ready to book our tour bus for India.  Hmmm, which one to chose?  Which do you think is the best option?

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